Rising funeral costs raised in parliament.

The rising costs of funerals has been raised in parliament by MP Emma Lewell-Buck saying some people are holding "do it yourself" funerals with rising costs putting even a basic service out of many families' reach.

The Labour MP for South Shields said the average funeral had reached £3,551.

In my opinion one of the real issues underpinning this problem is the amount of financial support available to families through the benefits system and the complex nature in how it is calculated as well as what is charged in the industry.

At Andrew Phillips Funeral Services we try and help families where we can and already offer a simple funeral service at a fair price to help those families who have financial challenges.

 A simple funeral service should include the Collection and care of the deceased as well as all the necessary arrangements, whilst still allowing families if they wish to provide their own flowers or orders of services etc.

However when it comes to "Do it yourself" funerals some families want to be able make these arrangements not through financial choice but because they want to be able to look after their loved one and lead the funeral arrangements as the last thing that they can do for the person they loved. This is very true for some religions, because everyone is different and this is sometimes something that helps them through their grief. In truth on this decision there is no right or wrong way, which is why we are able to support families who want to lead their own funeral service of facilitate them conducting a "DIY" funeral.

It is true that families should not be forced into making their own funeral arrangements purley out of financial choice and this is something that funeral directors, as members of the community, should be able to support with. However Funeral Directors are not the only ones who need to hold this responsibility as sometimes half or 1/3 of the funeral costs are for 3rd party fees such as the cost of the burial plot or cremation fees. 

When it comes to claiming from the DWP for help with funeral costs the system for releasing payments to help families with the funeral payments is a complex one and often takes weeks to process the payment to the funeral director. It also can sometimes be difficult to claim and where the average payout tends to be less than the final bill.

I'm not sure what the right answer is on this topic, so as family run independent funeral directors "Andrew Phillips Funeral Services" try to help clients where they have financial challenges, but one thing is for sure families should not have to rely on pay day loans to be able to pay for the funeral.

So where is the answer?

Some believe it lies within the funeral industry itself, others in Government. In my experience both working together for the good of the client is what really matters as well as Funeral Directors offering a low cost simple funeral service to families in conjunction with good support from local authorities and other industry suppliers ensuring that they also offer low cost alternatives.

For anyone struggling or worried about the cost of a funeral please free to give me a call for advice.

Please see below BBC News article Link : http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-30392982

 

Our New Photo's and Frames courtesy of Vowles in Upton

Well a big thank you! again to the team at Vowles for these lovely photo frames hand crafted for our arranging rooms. And of course a massive thank you to Alan Riley for putting them up!

Contact details for both below:

L.T. & R. Vowles LtdLongdon HeathUpton-upon-SevernWorcesterWR8 0RLTel: 1684 592212Alan Riley - J. R RestorationFurniture RestorerTel: 07879630337

L.T. & R. Vowles Ltd
Longdon Heath
Upton-upon-Severn
Worcester
WR8 0RL

Tel: 1684 592212

Alan Riley - J. R Restoration

Furniture Restorer

Tel: 07879630337

Andrew Phillips Funeral Services Raises £300 for Macmillan Cancer Support with your help!

Well what a morning and afternoon and thank you for all of your support. We raised £300 for Macmillan Cancer Support and had a fantastic Coffee Morning.

Once again we want to thank all those who supported this worthwhile cause and special thanks to Vowels for their support in getting everything ready along with Andrew from Coffee Italia and the excellent Coffee Pod's he provided for us.

Two winners for the games and we will let them know.

Following the success we are going to make this annual event so watch this space!

The history behind the building: Update and Visit from the Musuem

Hello again.

I had the best surprise today during our Macmillan Coffee Morning when . In my last update, I mentioned that the curator of the local museum and a colleague were looking up the history for me. Since then they have managed to confirm that the building was once a stable for the Marquis de Lys Francis Gabriel. He married Mary Elizabeth Porter and together they brought Catholicism back to Malvern. His father was a doctor in Birimingham and he was widely mourned by his patients. The Marquis and Marquesses are currently buried in St Wulstans Church.

With confirming that the building was a stable, they also gave me a bit of advice on how I could see the floor plans for the building. So I am going to visit Worcester hive's archive section and continue my research. 

I look forward to finding out and telling you more. 

see you next time. 

- Aimee

MacMillan Coffee Morning

You’re Invited!

On Friday, 26th September we will be taking part in the worlds biggest coffee morning. It's Macmillan's biggest fundraising event, where they ask people across the UK to hold a coffee morning and raise money for people living with cancer. In 2013, 154,000 people signed up, raising a record £20 million.

So Why not come and join us for a great cup of coffee and slice of cake and take this opportunity to come and chat and help raise donations for this fantastic cause.

We will be serving drinks all day which will include freshly made Coffee, Lattes, Mochas, Cappuccinos, Hot Chocolate and Tea and freshly made cakes.

We also would like to say a big thank you to Andrew from Coffee Italia in Droitwich for donating the coffee. (http://www.coffee-italia.co.uk/ ,Tel: 01905 799 169)

 

Date: Friday, 26th September 2014

Time: 7:30am — 4:30pm

Place: Andrew Phillips Funeral Services (Delyes, Wells Road, Malvern, WR14 4JL)

 

The history behind our building: Update

The blog has been behind recently due to all of our internal walls been put up and redecorations and moving rooms around. However we now have loads to upload for the blog.

So to start with the much promised update on the history of the building. As some of you know at the beginning of August I was set the challenge to find out about the history behind the building where our new funeral home is.  As previously posted many of the usual places which I thought i could source information drew a blank and with lot's of people telling me to try the musuem or the local Library in Malvern. Andrew Phillips our Funeral Director and owner even took a trip down to Malvern Library one afternoon and although he and found out lot's of information about Malvern and Malvern Wells none specifically about this building.

Then when I had almost given up my prayers had been answered and I had my first glimpse into this building's mysterious past.

The Malvern Museum had emailed me back saying that the curator of the Museum and a local specialist in buildings had gone down to the library themselves and found out some interesting facts about the building known as Delyes. In fact the buildings real name is De Lys named after the Marquis De Lys. It is believed that the building we now occupy was once the stable for the Marquis, Francis Gabriel, and his wife, Mary Elizabeth Porter. Without giving much away the Marquis and Marchioness bought Kinnersley House (which is currently being restored) 1873 and together they gave much support and encouragement to the new Catholic Churches that were appearing in Malvern. St Wulstan Church being just down the road from where they lived.

Although confirming that the building was once a stable conclusively is proving elusive all of the facts are seeming to point in that direction. Anyway the Museum has agreed to continue digging into the past and will update me when they have more information. 

- Aimee Pugh